by: Lauren

Set against the beautiful Ringling Museum in Sarasota, Florida, Diana and Matthew’s champagne and blush wedding planned by NK Productions was romantic, elegant, and full of surprises! Yes, you read that right… surprises literally filled the air at this wedding! From a 2 jet fly-over signaling the beginning of the evening and gorgeous circus acrobats high above the cocktail hour, to a magical firework show and a helicopter pickup for the bride and groom! Lucky for us, Ryan Joseph Photographs was there to capture all of the beauty and fun surprises so we can experience this gorgeous wedding for ourselves!

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I just love all of the surprises that Diana and Matthew had! I mean- acrobats at a wedding? So much fun! I definitely wish I was a guest for this wedding, that’s for sure!

I love the idea of surprising your guests – or even your groom- with something fun! Have any of you thought about doing some kind of fun surprise during your wedding?

 

Vendors who made it all happen…

Wedding Planner: NK Productions Wedding Planning // FloristBotanica // PhotographerRyan Joseph Photographs // Videographer: Voila Cinematic // Catering: Michael’s on East // CakePastries by Design // Ceremony Music: Matthew Dendy // Reception Band: Clint Wiley’s None Other // LightingAffairs in the Air // HairFresh Salon // Bride’s MakeupEri Vincent // Bridesmaids Makeup: Saks 5th Avenue // ChildcareElite Family Care

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by: Lauren

Hi friends! Today I want to touch on one of Every Last Detail’s purposes as a wedding blog… to provide inspiration.

Providing you with inspiration for your wedding is something that I hold close to my heart and I believe it is a necessary part of wedding planning. But I’ve also seen some instances where the inspiration can go too far, and instead of being inspired by someone else’s wedding, it just ends up being replicated.

Wedding Inspiration, Not Wedding Replication

When I was planning my wedding, I was desperately searching for inspiration. Back then (Yep, in this digital age we do refer to 2008 as “back then”!) there weren’t as many places to go for wedding inspiration as there are now. I found it incredibly difficult to find something that really inspired me and that I truly loved. And I think that’s because I didn’t quite grasp the concept of inspiration for my wedding. I thought I had to replicate everything, even if it wasn’t 100% perfect for me. The problems I ran into with this were a) the things that inspired me weren’t exactly *right* for me, my fiancé (now husband), and our wedding, and b) well what do you know… I have expensive taste.

Unfortunately, as it turns out, I wasn’t actually able to implement anything for my wedding that had inspired me. Everything I had at my wedding was just replication of other things that I kind of liked. Which leads me to the topic of today’s post- wedding inspiration, not wedding replication!

With all of the wedding blogs that are out there now and of course Pinterest, you have tons and tons of inspiration at your fingertips. But what exactly is the point of getting inspiration for your wedding? Inspiration plays a part in SO many things for a wedding. Colors, style, locations, flowers, favors, bridesmaid dresses… pretty much everything. Chances are good you’re going to need examples of the type of flowers you like, the style of wedding dress you want, and even the type of photography you like to show your friends, family, and wedding professional team. And that’s where blogs and magazines (aka publications) come in- to provide you with examples of those things and to inspire you.

You see, inspiration is a thing. It’s a noun, not just a word to describe something. Let’s get a little more literal here…

Inspiration (noun):

1. an inspiring or animating action or influence: I cannot writepoetry without inspiration.

2. something inspired, as an idea.

3. a result of inspired activity.

4. a thing or person that inspires.

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See? I think the most fitting definition is “a thing or person that inspires.” That’s the inspiration we’re all aiming for here in the wedding publication world- to inspire you!

[Note: Photo shoots that are seen in publications are meant to provide inspiration. They are often times a great way to see things done differently, and they're also a way for wedding professionals to "spread their wings" and think outside of the box. I personally love them because many people (especially brides) are very "visual", and inspiration shoots allow you to see new things for weddings!]

Wedding Inspiration, Not Wedding Replication

Image by  Caroline & Evan Photography, as seen via ECLECTIC KENTUCKY DERBY WEDDING IDEAS

So now that we have our literal interpretation of inspiration, let’s clarify what it doesn’t mean: replication.

There have been many times that I’ve seen things that just are replicas of something that’s already been done. Don’t get me wrong- I know better than anyone else that there are only *so many* ways to do something. And I’m 100% FOR details at weddings (clearly), and if it means that something has to be replicated, then go for it!

But it’s when I see something at a wedding and you can tell it’s there just for the sake of having it (aka it doesn’t go with the wedding)- that’s when I’m not a fan of details. Examples: scrabble pieces at the wedding of a couple that never plays scrabble. Or vintage furniture for a couple that wouldn’t know something vintage if it fell on top of them. Just because you see something on blogs and in magazines, it doesn’t mean you have to have it for your own wedding. Is it popular? Sure. But does it fit YOU? It might not.

When it comes to wedding details, don’t just replicate what you’ve seen a million times- make it something that is unique to you!

 

Don’t get me wrong- I’m not saying to not use the ideas of things that you see on blogs. I’m just encouraging you to make sure the details at your wedding reflect you and your partner. Every wedding is unique in it’s own way because every wedding is for a different couple. No two weddings are ever the same because each and every couple is different. Your relationship is unique and has it’s own story; your wedding is the opportunity for you to tell that story.

[A little example: For one wedding I planned, the couple was having barbeque as their meal. The venue was going to place bottles of barbeque sauce at the end of the buffet, but I suggested having the bottles on the table and incorporating them into their decor. The groom then suggested to "name" the two types of barbeque sauce after their dogs. They added a label that was designed by their stationer, and voila- they had a personal, unique detail for their wedding! Everyone loved it, and it was a great way to infuse a part of their relationship into their details.]

Wedding Inspiration, Not Wedding Replication

Image by Dana Cubbage Weddings

I know how it feels. You fall in love with all these blogs and magazines, and you would love for your own wedding to be featured on one of them because it starts to feel like a sort of “family” to you. So I’m here to tell you that YES, your wedding can be published- but it doesn’t have to look like everything else that you see! Don’t fall into the trap of what’s all over the place. You really don’t want a “Pinterest wedding”. Don’t feel obligated to have mason jars and milk glass at your wedding because that’s what you see everywhere. [And just to clarify, if milk glass and mason jars are what you want and are right for your wedding, don't feel like you can't have them! :)] Do what’s right for you. It’s your wedding.

The content that wedding blogs and magazines share is meant for inspiration, not replication.

 

A few tips for making sure you’re not replicating everything you see:

CHALLENGE

Challenge yourself to take the concept of something that inspires you and figure out a way to do it differently.

COMBINE

Combine elements of several different things that have inspired you and create something that is your own.

BE INSPIRED BY YOURSELVES

Use your relationship, your personalities, and your favorite things to inspire you.

CURATE

Go through your wedding Pinterest boards and delete pins that aren’t a fit for you and your wedding.

[Read more on Using Pinterest To Plan Your Wedding]

STEP AWAY

One you start figuring out what you want for your wedding, STEP AWAY FROM PINTEREST.

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Most importantly, remember that all of this is about getting inspiration for YOUR wedding, not replicating someone else’s wedding.

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Alright, so now tell me- what has inspired you that you’ll be incorporating into your wedding? Do you have things that you like, but you’re not sure how to make them your own? Or are you just flat-out clueless about how to make your wedding unique to you and your fiance?

Share below in the comments- I would love to help you figure out your unique details! :)

 

[A version of this post was originally published in October of 2011]


by: Lauren

Wedding Planning Advice: Make Your Wedding Your Own!

“Count your lucky stars that THIS is the time you’re getting married! All of this DIY and personalized weddings is relatively new! Long gone are the days where you have to follow specific guidelines about how weddings are supposed to look. This is YOUR DAY! Create your vision with you & your fiancée in mind. I had a couple who wasn’t a big fan of cake, but they loved pie! So instead of a wedding cake, they had a pie bar with every kind of pie you could imagine. Make your wedding your own!!”

- Jessica Charles Photography

 

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by: Lauren

Full of color, fun, and tons of glitter and sequins, this Great Gatsby inspired wedding planned by Atlanta Event Studio and captured by Tulle and Grace is definitely going to put a smile on your face! If black and white stripes, gold sequins, and shades of pink, yellow, and orange aren’t enough to win your heart, then some of the most amazing wedding details I’ve seen certainly will! But I’ll stop right there so you can see everything for yourself while the gorgeous bride, Lauren, tells you all about her awesome wedding!

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What (or who) helped you most in your planning process and/or on your wedding day?

My husband helped throughout the planning process- from searching for venues and coming up with the play list for the DJ. He was also supportive and encouraging during all my crazy wedding crafts-including hand painting and glittering 200 gold bottles for the tablescapes. My parents were also helpful with logistical details and out of town guests.

Hiring our wedding planner, Amanda, was the best choice we could have made. She made our day run smoothly, and I don’t know what I would have done without her. Amanda was able to create a timeline that fit all of our events, and kept us running on time. She kept us organized throughout the planning process, and confirmed all our vendors for us. On our wedding day we were able to enjoy the day and spend it with friends and family and didn’t have to worry about a thing.

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What was your inspiration for your wedding details and/or design?

Glitter & The Great Gatsby.

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What was your favorite thing about your wedding?

Being an interior designer, the tablescape design and other design details were important to me. I wanted the decor to be really unique and reflect details about who we are as a couple. My favorite part of the day, other than getting married, was dancing the night away with all of our friends and family.

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And we even have proof that this wedding was amazing thanks to this awesome highlight film from White Dress Media

Chase + Lauren // Highlight Film from White Dress Media on Vimeo.

 What is your best piece of advice for other brides?

HIRE A PLANNER! A wedding doesn’t have to be stressful. Especially for the day of- The day goes by so fast, you want to be able to enjoy every second and not have to worry about all the small problems and details.

The most perfect advice ever- y’all know I say to hire a planner all the time, but hearing it from brides always means so much more!

I’m still SO in love with every single aspect of Lauren and Chase’s wedding! Not only are they the most adorable couple, but the design and details are just absolutely amazing! And the glitter and sequins… hands down my favorite part of this fabulous wedding!

So are any of you going to be incorporating glitter and/or sequins into your own wedding? Please say yes!!! :)

 

Vendors who made it all happen…

Wedding Planner/Coordinator: Amanda Ready of Atlanta Event Studio / Photographer: Tulle and Grace / Flowers & Decor: A Legendary Event / Catering: A Legendary Event / Cake Baker: A Legendary Event / Reception Venue: Piedmont Estate / Invitations & Stationery: Wedding Paper Divas / Videographer: White Dress Media / Bridal Salon: Fabulous Frocks / Bridesmaid Dresses: Bill Levkoff, Bridals by Lori / Groomsmen Attire: Jos. A. Bank / Transportation: Cooper Transportation / DJ: DJ Josh Whitlock / Rentals: A Legendary Event / Jewelry: Stella and Dot

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