by: Carly

Shortly after celebrating your engagement and setting your budget, you will want to start considering various wedding dates. Unless you’re completely open with the rest of your planning process, we highly suggest having a few dates in mind before contacting vendors, purchasing your dress, or even deciding on your wedding style. Your date will guide you as you make more decisions down the line, and it may or may not be the source of potential issues too. So to help, we’ve teamed up with a few of our favorite wedding experts (all members of The V List) to talk about 10 factors you should keep in mind when choosing a wedding date.

How To Choose A Wedding Date via

1. Meaningful Dates

One of the best places to start when narrowing down wedding date options is to consider dates meaningful to you, your fiancé, and both of your families. Think about whether you would like to get married on the anniversary of your first date or the date you got engaged. A few other dates to consider: the anniversaries of your loved ones, or even just the same day of the month as your anniversary. Side note: Think about meaningful dates to avoid, too. Check in with family members to make sure you can plan around graduations, significant birthdays, and weddings that might already be in the works!  

2. Budget

You will want to consider getting married during a time when the majority of your wedding must-haves are in season, like food and flowers. You will also want to consider popular times when others are getting married, including seasons and days of the week. The spring and fall are the most popular seasons to get married, and Saturday evenings are the most desired day and time. There are always seasons, months, and days that are just as wonderful to get married that may not have quite as high of a price tag. Make sure to consider those too, and respect your budget.

“There is a budget for EVERY wedding and it’s there for a reason. Make a top 3 list each for you and your fiancé of the things that matter most. That’s where you put your money and that’s what helps to determine when you get married. If the day of the week doesn’t matter there’s often deals at venues for weekday weddings or Fridays and Sundays. But if you are set on a Saturday maybe a day during the summer would work best for your budget. If you choose a Saturday in the summer may be an indoor venue out of the heat is what you are looking for! Now you have a direction to look for choosing your perfect day!” – Embrace by Kara Photography

3. Season

Temperature and weather patterns are so important to consider when choosing your wedding season. If you’re envisioning hosting your wedding when the temperatures are more moderate, you may want to consider a spring or fall wedding. However, note that those seasons are typically also during the height of wedding season. Weather patterns are also a huge factor to think about. The summer is lovely, but it’s also when we see the greatest spike in temperature and threat of hurricanes and thunderstorms. On the other hand, snow may also affect your wedding day during the winter, especially if guests and professionals need to travel a distance in order to reach your venue.

“Think about peak times/seasons/dates when choosing a date. I know for destination weddings, this effects hotels, venue fees and food and beverage minimums. They also should think about rainy seasons/hurricane season if they are considering the Caribbean or even southern US.” –Just Save The Date Events

“If you are thinking about getting married in late fall/winter after daylight savings time ends, you need to either a) be open to doing a first look and portraits before the ceremony or b) be ok having your portraits done indoors/lit by flash. (Or be creative and have a brunch wedding!) A lot of people forget about how early the sun sets in those months and don’t plan their schedules accordingly. If you are not ok with either of those options, pick a different season!” – Nicole Jansma Photography

4. Length of Engagement

Think about the ideal length of time you would like to be engaged, and also the ideal length of time you would like to have to plan your wedding. If you got engaged during the spring and your ideal wedding season is also the spring, you’ll likely be engaged for about a year. However, if you’re hoping to celebrate your wedding day within six months, you will be planning a fall or winter wedding. Know what’s most important to you and your fiancé, and be open to compromising on time and season if necessary.

5. Wedding Professionals

If you have dream professionals on your list, make sure to contact them early on. Sometimes the availability of these pros will drive when you choose to get married. By contacting your favorite pros, you will make sure to be on their radar. Should another couple contact them for the same date, the professional will typically contact you first to see if you would like to firmly reserve the date and time.

6. Your Schedule

Always, always consider your schedule and the schedules of family and friends who you know you definitely want present on your wedding day. Even though you may love a season, it’s best not to get married during times you know are particularly stressful in life or at work, as you’re less likely to enjoy the days leading up to your wedding. Also, think about times when it will be easier for guests to travel.

“Take into consideration your guests, if you have many older people or little ones attending the wedding an outdoor summer wedding may not be the best choice for the comfort of your guests unless you provide adequate shading or tenting. These items should be factored into your overall budget.”Red Letter Event Planning


“If you are choosing a date under a year away, you may have a tougher time searching for available wedding vendors. That’s not to say it isn’t possible to still find the perfect team for you, it just might take a few more emails to find someone who isn’t booked on that date (says a wedding photographer who got married 7 months after getting engaged!) so be open to asking for referrals from those with whom you inquire who are already booked on your date.”Arielle Doneson Photography

7. Holidays

Either you definitely want to get married on or around a national holiday or you are very much against it. There are absolutely pros and cons, and we love what Danielle from DPNAK Weddings says below. Also, make sure to research the area in which you plan to marry in order to avoid popular events happening in that city, because these can cause a transportation and/or accommodation nightmare (think: marathon weekends, festivals, homecoming games, graduations, etc).

8. Honeymoon

If you’re planning on jetting off on your honeymoon immediately following your wedding, you will want to keep your destination’s season in mind. Additional fees may apply at resorts in the Caribbean during the winter because so many guests are searching for sunshine in order to escape the cold temperatures at home. The best time to head to the slopes is likely not during the summer when there isn’t snow in sight, but the winter isn’t the most popular time to visit Europe so you may find better priced options. Our best honeymoon tip: research the best season to visit your destination and then plan to travel at a time when couples and families are more likely to be working or in school (i.e: avoid holidays and peak times).

9. Lighting

Throughout the year, the sun sets at different times. Even though you might be planning your summer wedding during the winter, the sun will set much later on the day you and your fiancé get married. Research sunset times if you’re hoping to get married on the beach as the sun is setting or if portraits with the sunset as the backdrop are on your radar. Also, know the presence or lack of natural light will change the amount or type of lighting you will need to have present at your wedding venue.

10. Wedding Style

Although you will completely design your wedding after setting your date, it’s important to have an idea about your ideal wedding style. We cannot agree more with what Emily Grace Design says below!

“When it comes to designing your wedding, the time of year can be crucial if you are adamant about elements involving wedding decor. Accessibility to certain types of flowers, color options for materials, and even fighting natural elements (snow, heat, hurricanes, etc.) can become costly and frustrating. I’ve had brides panic over finding the right color shoes/costume jewelry/cardigans/ties/socks for their bridesmaids and groomsmen because it wasn’t a typical color for that season. And seriously, no one wants to have their wedding ruined by a hurricane.” – Treasury Rentals


What factors are influencing how you are you choosing your wedding date? Whether you are a bride or a professional, comment below with your best tips and tricks!

The following two tabs change content below.
How To Choose A Wedding Date via
My name is Carly, and I live for love whether it’s the love I witness between my family members and friends or the love I have for places and weddings. For these reasons and more, I write about the wedding industry, and I'm an event planner, designer, and floral stylist who will forever be in love with flowers, pink, and bows.

2 responses to How To Choose A Wedding Date

We love your comments, but please remember to keep them kind and positive, as this is a place for inspiration and sharing information. We have the right to remove or not approve any negative or harmful comments.
  1. laura (a Bride)

    Don’t rush it is the piece of advice I’d give. Getting engaged is exciting and you’ll constantly be asked when you’re getting married, but it’s a costly affair, so take your time planning the date and the wedding

  2. MIYA Thomas (a Bride)

    Thanks for sharing this information,Choosing a wedding date is one of the most important planning decision.

Add Your Thoughts...

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *


This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.