by: Carly

One of the very best decisions you can make while planning your wedding is to not only hire a planner but also a wedding designer (or one who does both!). We’ve talked about the difference between wedding planners and wedding designers before, but we thought we would turn to one of our favorite experts and V List Members, Amber of Amber Veatch Designs, to shed even more light on the topic!

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Amber is an incredible wedding designer, florist, and planner based in Tampa, and she has one of the most in-depth design processes of anyone we know. She’s a trained artist, and she often talks about her process as one relating to art and vision rather than planning alone. She knows what she’s doing, friends, and we love how much she simplifies the design process for her clients. Below, Amber is sharing how she defines wedding design, how she works with her clients, and how a designer can truly make your event feel like you. You won’t want to miss anything she says!

I meet with my clients and really listen about what they are saying and sometimes not saying. For my wedding couples, I ask a lot of questions to pinpoint what their specific style is. I ask questions like what style the decor is in their home, where they shop for clothes and what brands they are drawn to, to name a few. My goal is to understand what style makes them happy and best represents them individually and as a couple. It is important to me that my client’s weddings and events are a representation and celebration of who they are. I feel strongly about this because it is a big part of why I started my business and why I love this work. Life and love are very much worth celebrating, and I don’t want the celebration to be generic. 

I start by seeing a few photos from my clients. This can be four pictures or an entire Pinterest board. I have the ability to look at several random photos and decide what the common factor is. Maybe I can see that you love romantic floral arrangements but a pop-of-color is what you are really drawn to. Maybe I see that you like a lot of greenery or none at all. Maybe I see that you are drawn to a certain color and I help you incorporate that into your design.

My design plan includes a color palette and a break-down of each main component of your event. For my wedding clients, it will start with the color palette, the fashion, the paper goods, the ceremony decor, cocktail hour, reception design, floral inspiration (or a full break down if I am doing their florals), transportation and send-off. Within those main components, I incorporate ideas for details. For example, suggesting specialty rental items, a unique escort display, lounge area, photo opportunity (custom backdrop, props, photo booth), a dessert display, specialty drink and more! It depends on each individual client, their priorities, and the space I am designing in. 

What A Wedding Designer Really Does via TheELD.com

Design by Amber Veatch Designs, Photography by The Ganeys, Seen HERE

I present the design plan to my clients. This is a digital look book that explains each component that I listed above and sometimes more. This is a very helpful tool for my clients for several reasons. It helps them see how I am taking their inspiration photos and creating a cohesive plan that they can visualize. When they are able to visually see my vision planned out it helps them. It is also a great resource for my clients when they are meeting with their other vendors. My clients can reference the design plan and show their vendors so they can clearly see a defined style and vision and can stay within that specific concept. By doing that you are more likely to have a more cohesive design because everyone is on the same page aesthetically. 

Make sure to hop over to Amber’s post on her blog for even more! Plus, Amber shares the photos she used as inspiration for a client’s wedding and how she transformed her vision into the couple’s wedding day. It’s pretty fun to see- don’t miss it!

Do you have questions about wedding designers? Leave them below!

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by: Lauren

Today we are sharing a literal storybook wedding! Set in the library of the Luxmore Grande Estate, Michael and Michelle went for a bookish theme in purple hues for their Central Florida wedding. The amazing Flora Bloom Photography captured this stunning book lovers’ wedding that you are bound to love!

Anna Christine Events helped coordinate all the personalized details, like the spectacular book escort display with bookmarks for all of the guests. Even the cake from Everything Cake went along with the theme with a calligraphy tier. Get your pin button ready to save all the great literary inspired details!

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Vendors Who Made It All Happen…

Photographer: Flora Bloom Photography // Planning: Anna Christine Events // Venue: Luxmore Grande Estate // Hair + Makeup: Once Upon a Beauty // Flowers: Flowers by Lesley // Rentals: RW Events // Cake: Everything Cake // Stationery: Minted // Catering: Big City Catering // DJ: White Rose Entertainment

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by: Lauren

There is so much to love about this colorful fall New Jersey wedding captured by Tami & Ryan Photography! The beaches of the Jersey Shore were the perfect backdrop for Glenn & Gianna’s rose gold filled fete. They created the perfect balance between the cool beach setting and the warm autumn season with a mix of blush, oranges, and metallics. The beauty of this entire wedding look is that it would be perfectly suited no matter what the time of year, because the colors are fabulous!  And we are loving the lush, organic style of the florals by Petal & Poppy Co! Oh, and the metallic and marble drip cake was a major statement piece- don’t miss it!

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From Tami & Ryan:

There was sun shining, and it was a beautiful October day down the Jersey Shore! There was also Rose gold for days!! All of the details had little touches of rose gold, and she even had sparkling rose gold converse sneakers!

While we never force a couple to have a first look, because we definitely respect everyone’s opinions on what they want to do, we still love a good private moment with the couple before the ceremony! That moment when Glenn turned around and saw Gianna was the sweetest! As he was wiping the tears from his face, you could see the love that he felt for his beautiful wife! These two made our job easy and just had to be themselves for our portrait time together!

Icona Avalon truly is a destination wedding dream location! Whether you’re just traveling there from an hour away or from another part of the country, you feel like you are at a beautiful destination wedding! From the location, to the staff, to the food, you really get the best of the best! It’s one of our favorite venues to work at!

The rest of the evening was a blast, with the Stellar Mojo Band rocking the night away!! We even got to take the couple out by the pool for a few romantic nighttime portraits before we left for the night!

To read more about them and their proposal, check out the blog we wrote

 

Vendors Who Made It All Happen

Photographer: Tami & Ryan Photography // Hair: Martino Cartier Salon // Makeup: A. Muse Artistry // Florals: Petal & Poppy Co. // Band: Stellar Mojo Band // Invitations: Minted // Shoes: Converse // Dress: Morilee by Madeline Gardner // Jewelry: Jewel by Badgley Mischka // Officiant: Christopher Messenger // Wedding Arch: Built by Bride’s Father

 

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by: Lauren

Remember when no one knew what Pinterest was?

And when there was no such thing as a “Pinterest Wedding”? 

 

Remember when no one knew what Instagram was?

And when there was no such thing as an “Instagram Wedding”? 

 
I’ve noticed myself and others saying these things a lot, because when it comes to weddings, Pinterest and Instagram can be both a blessing and curse. Now, for the purposes of this post, I’m going to be focusing on Pinterest, because it’s an actual tool that can be used to help you in designing your wedding. As for Instagram, it’s definitely a lot more functional than it used to be (I would highly recommend using the “Collections” feature). But basically, they’re both one in the same- they both are housing tons of images that can provide you with some awesome inspiration for your wedding.

I first happened upon this “new thing called Pinterest” back in 2011, and when I told people about how awesome it was, everyone looked at me like I was crazy. (Actually, the same could be said for Instagram too!) But now, years later, everyone and their moms (literally) are pinning things left and right, and it’s a household term! Now don’t get me wrong- Pinterest is awesome, and I absolutely love it! But when it comes to weddings, Pinterest (and Instagram too now) has started to cause a bit of an issue- the “Pinterest Wedding”.

[Read this post: Using Pinterest To Plan Your Wedding]

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[Some background info/history: Pinterest and Instagram have been amazing for wedding inspiration and ideas, but they have also been “killing” originality in weddings. You see, with weddings, “trends” would usually make their rounds over the span of 2 to 3 years, but now thanks to Pinterest, these “trends” are perpetuated even longer than this, thus becoming old news. I blame the algorithm of Pinterest, showing you pins that have more interaction- which are also, coincidentally, the oldest! So sure, there are tons of GREAT ideas and inspiration for weddings on Pinterest, but those same ideas and inspiration are being seen by just about every bride and groom who is on Pinterest. With Instagram, it’s not quite as bad, but the one thing that I see there is that there is a lot of the same happening.] 

So what exactly is a “Pinterest Wedding”, and why should you try to avoid it?

 

A “Pinterest Wedding” is one in which many of the details and concepts have come directly from Pinterest. No tweaks, no putting your own twist on it, just replicated from Pinterest. You pulled up your Pinterest and said, “I want this,” and that is what your wedding pros created for you. You may have even attended a wedding, in which you found yourself saying, “Oh, I saw that table number on Pinterest” or something of the like- that my friends, is a Pinterest Wedding.

Over the years, I’ve heard from past brides about how upset they were when they found out that one of their friends copied things from their own wedding. Well, Pinterest does just that- only it takes things a bit more global. When you replicate things seen on Pinterest, you are doing what was right for THAT bride, not what is right for YOU. [Read this post: Inspiration, Not Replication]

You don’t want to have what every other bride in the world is going to be having, right? Take the things you see, be inspired by them, and figure out how to put your own unique spin on it- you might even come up with something even BETTER than what you originally saw on Pinterest!

Now with all this said, let me be clear- I LOVE Pinterest and Instagram, and I still think they are both amazing for finding wedding inspiration and ideas. This is NOT a Pinterest/Instagram witch hunt. ;)

However, my point is this: you shouldn’t be designing your whole entire wedding design and details based off of what you saw on Pinterest and Instagram.

Yes, use the platforms to get ideas, see what other people are doing, what you like, what you hate, and learn what your style is. All of those things are essential parts of designing your wedding. But at some point, it’s imperative that you step back from scrolling and pinning ALL THE THINGS, and figure out what is going to be right for YOUR wedding.

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I asked some of our members of The V List for their tips on using Pinterest, and how to not end up with a “Pinterest Wedding”, and they had some GREAT insight…

“I absolutely recommend that brides use Pinterest during their initial stages of design conception. It helps gets the juices flowing. However, I always tell my brides to jump off once they have their ideas together. Use it for inspiration, not for duplication. Your wedding should be a reflection of you and your relationship with your betrothed, not something that was meaningful to someone else. If you allow Pinterest to dictate your wedding, you will never be satisfied with the results because it will NEVER look like what you’ve seen because too many variables are in play. Allow yourself to be completely taken with what YOU come up with and the beauty that YOUR vendors create and capture!” – Emily of Treasury Rentals

“You want your wedding and your wedding photos to tell the story of YOU and YOUR LOVE, without feeling the pressure to live up to other people’s ideas of the perfect wedding. When you ask your photographer to replicate images found on Pinterest, the authentic emotion he/she is trying to capture immediately disappears. Pinterest has its place, and can be a great source of inspiration, but leave it there. The images you want hanging on your wall when you’re 80 are the ones that show true emotion, not a shot of paper straws inside a mason jar.” – Cat of Cat Pennenga Photography

 “My two most effective ways to utilize Pinterest: 1) for figuring out what YOU are drawn towards naturally for both color palette and overall aesthetic. 2) Pinterest can be a great tool for finding solutions for a specific item (i.e., napkin fold options, print material verbiage). Beyond that- I always advise my brides to stay off Pinterest once we decide on their design board!” – Laura of Ashton Events


Again, I’d like to reiterate that this isn’t saying to not use Pinterest or Instagram to find inspiration and ideas for your wedding. Please do- both platforms are amazing for that! But I want to encourage you to infuse yourself and your relationship into your wedding design too, and that sometimes means stepping away from Pinterest and Instagram.

And speaking of your wedding design, it’s a GREAT idea to have a wedding designer. Sometimes he or she may be a planner as well, sometimes a floral designer, sometimes both, sometimes neither. But the things that I have seen wedding designers create are always unique and 100% reflect the couple. Designs like this make my heart so very happy, and I know that the same happens for the couples too!

I’d love to hear about what you all think about the “Pinterest/Instagram Wedding”… have you been to one?

 

What are you doing to ensure that you won’t have a wedding that is just replicating everyone else’s?

 

PS- If you’re not already following me on Pinterest, come pin with me, and follow me on Instagram too! ;)

 

Editor’s Note: A version of this post was originally published in 2013. It has since been updated and revamped for accuracy.