by: Lauren

I basically have a love/hate relationship with escort cards. Yes, I think they’re necessary, and yes I usually like arranging them on tables. But after seeing paper escort cards over and over again with no unique displaying method, my hatred of them began. And with that hatred, my new love for “escort items” was discovered.

 

“Escort Items” are basically things that act as escort cards- usually the favors or a piece of table decor. They still have the guest names and their table number on them, but it’s a way of bringing attention to another aspect of your wedding decor. Escort items are presented in the traditional alphabetical escort card fashion, but can also be put on shelves or in interesting groupings as well. The thing I love about escort items is that it’s like a little “sneak peek” into your wedding right before your friends and family walk in. Guests get a little bit excited, and it shines a bit more light on another aspect of your wedding. Something like this is the perfect example…

 

{Detail To Love} Escort Items via TheELD.com

Via Ruffled

 

You immediately inject a little of you and your fiance’s personalities into your wedding, and give your guests something fun talk about when they’re on the quest to find their table. It’s a detail that takes a little extra time on your part, but trust me- it can set a great tone for your wedding! So, tell me- are you already planning on using escort items, or now considering it?

 



by: Lauren

Lately I’ve been seeing a few disgruntled commentators on different wedding blogs about “Styled Photo Shoots”. I just wanted to provide a little insight into these shoots from my perspective as a vendor, bride, and blogger.

“Styled” photo shoots, or as I like to call them, “Inspiration Shoots”, are done by wedding vendors because they want to showcase their work. Often times some vendors aren’t able to fully utilize their expertise and talents for weddings and events because of client budget restrictions. And so, photo shoots were born. Personally, I want to see cool decor, flowers, special details- mainly I want to get inspiration from the shoots. The element about these inspiration shoots that I think might be disappointing some is that they may not actually be *attainable* for a bride to replicate. This is sometimes the truth. I can attest that there are lots of vendors that strive to keep their shoots “budget friendly”. However there are also some that put their absolute all into a shoot to show the best of their ability, using the very best flowers, linens, decor, etc. Another reason vendors do photo shoots is because the same types of weddings keep popping up all over. I know that’s one of my personal reasons for doing them- I’m sick of feeling like I’m seeing the same wedding on every single blog. A good way to curb this “plateau” is to enable brides to see new and different styles and designs that can be incorporated into their weddings, which is easily done with inspiration shoots!

As a bride, I looked at these photo shoots as inspiration for my own wedding. I loved seeing different versions of table numbers, paper products, color schemes, etc. Yes, sometimes I could care less about the dress, or I would lust after something that I couldn’t have for my wedding (or didn’t fit with the style of my wedding), or I would find a new favorite color scheme, but overall, they were inspiring. Isn’t that what the majority of brides are looking for when reading wedding blogs anyways-inspiration? (Note: Except if you read {ELD}! You’re looking for advice, tips, and insight too!)

Inspiration shoots are also really helpful in visualizing certain wedding styles. A the editor of {ELD}, I accept inspiration shoots that are styled based a particular word in the Wedding Style Dictionary. In doing this, I’m able to convey to you all what various wedding styles look like, as well as hopefully provide wonderful inspiration at the same time! With these Style Dictionary shoots, vendors have been instructed to make sure elements can be replicated by brides in some way, or easily attained. So no worries wondering {ELD} readers- the Style Dictionary Shoots are totally *safe*!

 

Any other questions, comments, or thoughts about Styled/Inspiration photo shoots?



by: Lauren

This wedding from Kenzie Shores Photography really struck me when I saw it because I recognized the Tampa venue, The Rusty Pelican, and it was gorgeous! The colors of purple and white paired with lots of bling created a gorgeously elegant wedding!

 

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Gorgeous bride, and I love the bouquets! You can see more photos from this wedding and the vendors on Kenzie’s blog {here}. Thank you for sharing this with us, Kenzie!

 



by: Lauren

Purple and gray just may be my favorite color combination for weddings right now. Although just about everything with gray is my favorite. For the longest time, I thought I had already done an inspiration board for purple and gray, but I looked through all of my saved boards, and I couldn’t find one!

 

Purple and gray is a color combination that I’ve been talking to a lot of brides about, and in my extensive research for inspiration board photos, I haven’t seen that many weddings with these colors yet! It doesn’t matter if you’re getting married in the fall, winter, summer, or spring- purple and gray is perfect for a wedding in any season. So if you want different colors that aren’t that popular right now, purple and gray is the way to go!

 

Inspiration Board: Purple & Gray via TheELD.com

Row 1: Dessert Table, Placesetting, Ring Pillow

Row 2: Shoes, Bouquets, Cake, Table

Row 3: Couple, Bouquet, Tablescape, Flowers

 

Any color paired with gray is instantly gorgeous. You can have a modern wedding or a vintage wedding- it’s all in how your details are put together and what shades of colors you use. With purple, I’m a huge fan of using a spectrum of shades of purple- from flowers to bridesmaid dresses, it looks awesome! So what do you guys think of this color combo? I think I’ve almost exhausted every combination of colors paired with gray…have I missed any?!