by: Lauren

Happy Monday everyone! As I mentioned on Friday, I’m off on an “ELD Gulf Coast Roadtrip” this week! Everything is of course still business as usual here at ELD, but I wanted to do something a little fun for all of you while I’m “away”!

One day, I was being interviewed, and all of my answers kept leading back to the invitations. It was then that I knew I REALLY had to get some tips and advice for invites on ELD! Of course since invitations aren’t quite my specialty (even though they’re one of my FAVORITE details), I asked some of the amazing ELV paper pros to share their expertise with us as part of ELD’s Stationery Week! So every day this week, in addition to the usual daily posts, you will be getting tips, advice, and insight about wedding stationery! We’re starting Stationery Week week off with Julie of Ten Four Paper sharing some insight into the first thing you need to know about wedding invitations… the design!  

Stationery Week: Designing Your Wedding Invitations via TheELD.com

I’m so excited to share some tips on ELD today concerning my favorite part of weddings… invitations! There are truly so many options and wonderful stationers out there, and the possibilities are endless when it comes to sending your guests something special. I always like to remind my clients that invitations are the FIRST impression guests receive of your event, so why not make them memorable? Designing your invitations can be a bit overwhelming, so here are some ideas to inspire you and break things down…

Color

Color is a great way to infuse personality into your invites, and it is easy to coordinate paper goods with the colors used throughout your wedding. Color choices can be influenced by the season in which you are getting married, the location of your wedding or the use of certain colors simply because you like them! Whites, grays and metallics are great for winter or minimalist weddings. Greens, yellows and pinks scream spring and summer, while oranges, reds and browns pick up the warm colors of Autumn. It can also be fun to pick colors that contrast with each other, such as purple and yellow, teal and coral, or blue and orange. Make sure to pick colors you love and are comfortable with, and your paper items will look great!

Stationery Week: Designing Your Wedding Invitations via TheELD.com

Font

Font choices are another way you can personalize your wedding stationery. As with color, it is important to choose fonts that match the style of your wedding. For formal, traditional weddings, it is often best to go with elegant script fonts and serif typefaces. Serif typefaces have little “feet” or serifs on the ends of the letters, and can look sophisticated and fancy. For more informal and modern weddings, sans-serif fonts and twists on classic scripts can add a unique touch. As with color, it can be fun to use contrasting fonts to add interest to the invitations. Consider having your name in a bolder script font, and all of the subsequent information in a more muted font, so your names stand out!

Stationery Week: Designing Your Wedding Invitations via TheELD.com

Paper

The paper your invites get printed on can be just as important as the design itself! I always suggest a heavy, crisp cardstock for any wedding invitation, to match the importance of the day. From there, make sure you look at all sorts of paper stocks, from pearlescent shimmer paper to more textural linen finishes. There are also many different weights of paper, so you are not limited to standard cardstock. Always ask for a sample of the paper your invitations will be printed on, to make sure you like the way it looks and feels before printing your entire invitation order!

Stationery Week: Designing Your Wedding Invitations via TheELD.com

 Layout

There are many layouts you can use to organize the information you are presenting to your guests. A typical invitation is a 5” x 7” or A7 size. This does not mean you are limited to this size, you will just find it to be the most common in designer collections! Other layouts and sizes are always possible, so make sure to ask your stationer for ideas. It is also important to note that any square invitations will be a bit more costly to mail than rectangular ones, due to USPS guidelines.

When thinking of the layout of your invitations, it is important for you to know how much information you need to give your guests. This will help your stationer determine the appropriate number of extra cards and items you need to best present everything. Some brides like to use pockets to organize the extra cards, while others can find them overwhelming and prefer to simply place the items in an envelope. In the end, it is really a personal preference, and completely up to you! Just choose a layout you are comfortable with and your guests will be thrilled and informed!

Stationery Week: Designing Your Wedding Invitations via TheELD.com

 Embellishments

Ribbons, handmade papers, envelope liners and rhinestones… there are many ways to add extra details to your invitations. While embellishments will add to the cost of your invitations, sometimes an additional extra detail can go a long way. Bright envelope liners can add a fun pop of color, and textural handmade papers can add an element of interest. Think of embellishments as a way to make your invitations unique and personal to you!

Stationery Week: Designing Your Wedding Invitations via TheELD.com

As with all other aspects of your invitations, it is important to think of the overall style of your event. Burlap wraps probably won’t be a good fit for a fancy ballroom wedding, and Swarovski crystals might not make sense for a casual beach affair. The more you tell your stationer about your event and personal style, the more they can brainstorm unique touches that will make your invitations unique.

Just like any other wedding vendor, I recommend finding a stationer you like and trust. Make sure your invitations reflect YOUR personality, and never be afraid to ask a lot of questions! The invitation design process can be a bit scary, but just make sure you stay true to your style and comfort level, and you will end up with invitations you love and excited guests!

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Julie, thank you SO much for sharing this information with us! I know I most definitely never even considered ANY of this when it came to my invitations! Brides, be sure to check out some of Julie’s (Ten Four Paper) fabulous work in her ELV gallery and on her website! And then come back tomorrow for more of Stationery Week! :) 



by: Lauren

Hi friends! This Detail To Love is quite appropriate for today… you’ll find out why in just a minute! Right now thought, let’s talk about using an atlas as a guest book! How absolutely perfect is this for a couple that loves to travel?

Detail To Love: Atlas Guest Book + ELD Hits The Road! via TheELD.com

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Guests could leave messages for you all throughout the atlas, or maybe you could even instruct them to sign their name near where their from or where their favorite city is! Any way you end up doing it, you’ll be able to have a great keepsake for after your wedding too! What do you all think? Would you use an atlas for your guest book?

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Alrighty, and now for why this detail is absolutely perfect for today… tomorrow my husband and I are leaving for a roadtrip! And this isn’t just any roadtrip… I’m calling it the “ELD Gulf Coast Roadtrip”, since we’re making a few stops along the way to meet wedding pros! We’ll be starting with a few days in the Florida Panhandle, making a quick stop in New Orleans, and then ending in Dallas with a networking event and a photo shoot! If you’re in the Destin, FL or Dallas/Fort Worth areas, I would absolutely LOVE to meet you! Just click on either of the links below for the info!

Every Last Detail {DESTIN} Mixer

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Posts will be continuing as usual while I’m on the road, but there’s going to be something SUPER special going on here on ELD as well… and it may or may not involve stationery and a giveaway of some kind! Okay, I’ll tell you now so you know… next week is going to be “Stationery Week” on ELD! Every Last Vendor stationery designers will be sharing awesome tips and advice with you every day next week, and the week will end with an awesome giveaway! So be sure to stay up-to-date with all of the tips heading your way! Have a great weekend everyone! :)



by: Brit Stewart

First off, this wedding is filled with so many fun details, all captured beautifully by Twila’s Photography. Secondly, I love that this soiree of a wedding was planned by a dear friend of mine, Emily of Simply Yours Weddings. And, I’m pretty sure my own husband is drooling over the Groom’s Cake. Oh, and how smart is this couple for really focusing on the heart of their wedding day? I mean, they did choose vendors who LOVE weddings. And Kristin’s bride-ly advice? Definitely one every couple should keep in their back pocket.

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What (or who) helped you most in your planning process and/or on your wedding day?

Obviously there are great online sources that are making wedding planning a lot easier these days. However, I found it invaluable to have a wedding planner. Emily Humphries of Simply Yours Weddings was great to work with and connected me with many of my vendors. Since we were getting married in a city where we’d only lived for a year or so, I felt like I needed someone’s help even more in the planning stages. Then on the day of, she literally took care of everything so I was able to enjoy the time with my friends, family and new husband.

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What was the most important thing to you when deciding who to work with for your wedding?

For me it was really important to have vendors that LOVE working on weddings. There are many vendors that feel like they have to do weddings to pay the bills, but really prefer to do other types of work. I wanted everyone there on the day to want to be there because they love what weddings are all about. There are obviously many other factors that played a part in my choices, but this was the most important thing.

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What was your inspiration for your wedding details and/or design?

I had remembered driving by our wedding venue a year before our wedding and there was a beautiful field of flowers growing tall that were vibrant green and white. I knew that I wanted to incorporate shades of green and white as our colors to mimic that field. After that things kinda fell into place. We love wine and also wanted to incorporate some Nashville touches. With the help of blogs and Pinterest for idea-sparkers, we were able to create a day that incorporated things we love.

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What was your favorite thing about your wedding?

My favorite thing about our wedding was having so many of the people we love in one room celebrating our union. It was so touching that our loved ones were able to travel from 9 different states to be with us on our big day. I really love that everything came together so easily with the help of all my amazing vendors.

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What is your best piece of advice for other brides?

You’ve hired great people. You have communicated to everyone what they need to know. You’ve planned the heck outta this wedding. Now just let it happen. No day is perfect for everyone; it’s just perfect for you two. And that’s all that matters.

For me, planning my own wedding was about focusing on the personal touches and making my guests feel honored. For Kristin and Bryan it was about finding the right vendors and letting them take care of the rest. What has been the most important aspect of your planning process so far?

xo,
Brit

 

Vendors who made it all happen…

Photographer: Twila's Photography / Wedding Planner/Coordinator: Simply Yours Weddings / Flowers & Decor: Amanda Jerkins Design / Videographer: Truepix / Cake Baker: Main Event Productions / Ceremony Venue: Rock Castle / Reception Venue: Bluegrass Yacht and Country Club


by: Lauren

Thursday Tips: How To Have An Awesome DIY Wedding via TheELD.com

It’s no secret that I’m all about doing what I can to help you all have amazing weddings… but I recently noticed that one type of wedding I don’t talk about too much is DIY weddings. But you know the thing is, often times DIY weddings have the BEST details, which of course I’m ALL about too, so today… we’re talking DIY!

To start off, I want to state that to me, a DIY wedding is more of a style of wedding (which is also known as “handmade”). Clearly, DIY is a huge, all encompassing term… it can be attributed to details, planning, elements, how a wedding is carried out, etc. With that said, there are also differences among DIY weddings, and those differences can be the division between having an AWESOME DIY wedding and just a plain old DIY wedding.

So here’s the deal- couples often turn to DIY to stay within their budget, right? It’s not necessarily always a style choice- sometimes it’s the choice that’s made out of pure necessity. But there are also couples who decide on having DIY weddings because that is 100% them. They’re artistic, creative, intimate, and want something that is going to reflect them. Ding ding ding! Friends, THOSE are the awesome DIY weddings that you’re seeing all over the internet and in magazines.

Now sometimes those couples have a decent budget, and sometimes they have a smaller budget… but the success of any DIY wedding, no matter the budget, can hinge on a few important elements. DIY weddings have awesome details because with a DIY wedding, you are truly putting yourself into your wedding. In addition to that, it’s also a combination of a few other things, so I thought I would lay them out so everyone can have an AWESOME DIY wedding…

Use professionals where & when you can… 

Yes! You can certainly still hire professionals to carry out your DIY wedding. In fact, there are even professionals who specialize in DIY weddings! Have a strict budge to stick to? Try to hire the crucial ones- the ones who will play a big role in how your day pans out. I’ve heard it said many times that if you’re having a DIY wedding and you hire an amazing photographer and an equally amazing planner, they will be SO worth the money that you spend. What means the most to you? Food? Then hire a great caterer or even see if your favorite restaurant or food truck (YES, food truck- do it!) offers catering. Or maybe decor and having your DIY projects and vision brought to life means the most to you… then go for a planner or designer to carry everything out on your wedding day. You know what your budget is and what means the most to you though, so I’m not going to tell you who to hire and who not to… all I’m saying is hire pros if you can! You will not regret it! (PS: as I say so very often… you get what you pay for!)

Keep the guest count small…

I’ve said it time and time again… if you want to save money, keep your guest count small! If you know that you have a tight budget, start off with a small guest list. The great thing about guest lists is that you really don’t have to commit to the people on your list until you send out invites about 8 weeks before your wedding. So you can certainly also make cuts to your guest list if you have to. (Note: Unless you sent them a Save The Date… keep in mind when you’re sending Save The Dates that you only want to send them to people you ABSOLUTELY know you want at the wedding!)

Keep everything reflective of you…

As I mentioned earlier, the best DIY weddings are those that are completely reflective of the couple. Of course those are always the best details in general, so just always remember that! You don’t have to do what Susie and Joe did, and you don’t HAVE to have favors… it’s your wedding, do what is YOU, and do what you want!

Creativity is key (aka creative friends)… 

Most everyone that I have talked to who had awesome DIY weddings, said they couldn’t have done it without their planner or their creative friends/family. If you’re not hiring any professionals to help you in carrying out your wedding vision, the key is creativity… more specifically, creative friends! Sure, you can have that brilliant idea for a wall of ribbon garland behind your sweetheart table, but once you get started, you’ll realize that it’s going to take you forever. You will most definitely want to enlist the help of creative friends/family to help you carry out your ideas! (A little tip for enlisting their help: tell them precisely what you want them to help with. Often times people will say they’ll help, but then never actually help because they don’t have any guidance from you, and you might possibly be a little wary of asking them more than once. Communicate!)

Thursday Tips: How To Have An Awesome DIY Wedding via TheELD.comPhoto via Simply Savannah Events 

Test out your DIY projects… 

There are certain things that are easier to DIY than others. Specifically, the things that you can before the actual wedding week are always your best bets for DIY projects. Once you know what DIY elements you want to do, you’ll want to test them out. Don’t buy a million things right away- you could definitely end up spending way more than you need to! Test out your DIY projects, to make sure you can even do them. I have attempted so many things and then realized that a) it took way longer than I expected and b) it was way more work than I could put in. If it doesn’t pan out, purchase the item from somewhere/someone (Etsy is always great) or have someone with experience do them (Glamour & Grace’s Handmade Guide is awesome too!). You can still have that DIY “style”, and not necessarily have to DIY every single thing!

You don’t need EVERYTHING…

I recently had a nice little discussion with some wedding pros about what actually makes a wedding. The resounding topic was that sure, while centerpieces and favors and menus are awesome (and great details), they’re not going to make or break your wedding. I agree. You don’t need EVERYTHING… and there are always alternatives! Don’t want to print 100 menus? Do one big chalkboard menu! Don’t want to get favors for all your guests? Make a donation to your favorite charity instead. It’s okay if you nix a few things… just make sure they’re not things that you absolutely love. :)

Allow for plenty of time…

Ah one of the biggest parts of a DIY wedding, having the time. This pertains to both in the months, weeks, and days leading up to your wedding, as well as on your wedding day. Allow for plenty of time for any DIY projects to get done. Plan ahead, and set a DIY schedule for yourself in the time leading up to your wedding. (You don’t want to be like me and be making your menus until 3am the night before your wedding.) And on the day of your wedding, create a timeline for the people who are helping you (if you don’t have a planner, that is). Make sure everyone knows what they are doing, where everything is, and where they need to be. The earlier the better- especially if the people helping you out are going to be attending your wedding. :)

 

With all of this considered, let’s keep in mind that not ALL DIY weddings are also going to be considered “budget” weddings. Some are, but then again, some aren’t. It all depends on several factors that are different for everyone- including what someone’s budget is! (Because everyone has a budget, right?!) Keep in mind that with a DIY wedding, there are certain extents of DIY. You could truly be DIYing EVERYTHING about the wedding, including how it’s carried out, or you can have someone else carry out your DIY elements. Either way, you’re still having a DIY wedding, and if you stick to the above things, you can have an AWESOME DIY wedding!

So who’s having a DIY wedding? What *kind* of DIY wedding are you having, and what exactly will you be DIYing? I want to hear your plans! :)

 

*Photo at top of post by Britt Croft Photography, via this DIY Wedding*