The Accessories Guide for Men {Part 2}

Hi all! We’re finally back with part 2 of our accessories guide for men (aka “man-cessories”)! If you missed part 1, be sure to check it out here!

The Accessories Guide for Men {Part 2}

Pocket Squares

The handkerchief was once just a simple piece of cloth squirreled away in the pockets of men’s pants and jackets, revealed only with the need to catch a sneeze or mop a sweaty brow on a hot day. Then one day, someone thought his jacket could use a little extra pop of style and elevated that hanky to the status of pocket square. Pocket squares now remain in the breast pocket and are made with higher quality fabrics in a variety of patterns and colors that can turn the most basic black suit into a thing of beauty. And with a myriad of folding options, there is a pocket square look that will match any mood or personality you feel like expressing.

The Accessories Guide for Men {Part 2}

Shoes

Unlike the others, shoes are the one essential accessory on this list, though being so should never make them an after-thought. Don’t forget, wedding photos are mostly full-body shots and as such, shoes matter. So let’s just start with the basic footwear rules, especially when considering your wedding. To begin, no square-toed shoes, ever. Please! (But let’s also never go too pointy! Ugh) If you are going with a more classic look then you’ll want to adhere to the traditional idea of matching your belt to your shoes. At a minimum no black and brown together please. If, however, you are less of a traditionalist and like your kicks to do the talking, luckily these days there are a plethora of options that stretch beyond your classic Chuck Taylors (which still remain the go-to choice for many a non-traditional wedding look). When it comes to wedding attire though, just because you’re going casual doesn’t mean scruffy is ok. Make sure those sneakers are high-style and haven’t been dragged through the city streets for the past 10 years.

The Accessories Guide for Men {Part 2}

Accessorizing Tip

Whichever accessory or accessories you choose, try not to have too many competing statements in one look. Pick one or two bold pieces that will stand out. If you’re mixing colors and patterns between your neckwear and pocket square then choose a more muted tie bar or belt and simple shoes. Just remember to have fun with it and let your personality dictate the kind of statement you want to make with your look on your wedding day or any day.

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*****Fun Extra*****

Grunion Run is giving away five ties or bow ties of your choice over on their site! The giveaway starts today and ends on June 3rd, so head on over there to enter!!

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Kevin + Yun are ELD contributors and are the owners of The Grunion Run Groomsmen Shop — an online shop for grooms and groomsmen looking for affordable, vintage-inspired wedding wear. They currently live in Los Angeles, CA with their precocious baby girl who keeps them on the move when they aren’t working to make guys everywhere look their handsome-best for their big day!

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Rustic Bohemian Wedding Inspiration

This rustic bohemian wedding inspiration from ST Photography is absolutely fabulous! The airy, boho look paired with rustic style elements is perfect for a bride who wants something a little different from the norm…

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I love the rich, bold colors, and the eclectic mixture of patterns, don’t you?

Are any of you planning on incorporating a bohemian theme for your own wedding decor?

 

Vendors who made it all happen…

Photographer: ST Photography
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Colorful Modern Idaho Mountain Wedding

This colorful modern wedding from Dev Khalsa Photography takes place in a setting that you wouldn’t normally expect- the Idaho mountains! But let me tell you- it most certainly is amazing! Colorful decor paired with a relaxed mountain atmosphere created just what the bride and groom wanted- a beautiful and fun wedding!

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From the bride, Emily:

What (or who) helped you most in your planning process and/or on your wedding day?

The master planner awards go to my parents, who were really helpful, generous and thoughtful about all of the details. Dev, our photographer, was also really helpful in thinking through the details of the day and providing other vendor recommendations. The wedding coordinator, Megan, at the venue, Trail Creek Cabin with Sun Valley Company, was also really helpful.

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What was the most important thing to you when deciding who to work with for your wedding?

The most important thing was for us to feel comfortable with the vendor and to trust their products would be beautiful. Dev, the photographer, is a family friend who had also taken some beautiful family portraits for us the previous winter. She was the first vendor we picked and we were lucky she was available to work with. She did some engagement photos for us in the summer before the wedding that turned out beautifully, and helped my husband and I get a feel for how she works. She is so laid back and fun, but at the same time totally professional, well prepared, helpful and thoughful. She even sent us movie tickets in the weeks leading up to the wedding so that we would remember to take a date night. She is great! Our flower vendor, Kurt, was also so fun to work with. He really focused on how we wanted the wedding to look and feel and then put his imagination to work. He said he does not like to do a wedding without meeting the bride in person and really getting a feel for her. I thought that was particularly insightful. And we chose our cake after a wonderful morning tasting at Cristina’s of Sun Valley. We had a chocolate cake with strawberry and cream filling. It was heavenly. And the tasting was such a special time, too; it set the stage for how Cristina would treat our actual wedding cake.

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What was your inspiration for your wedding details and/or design?

I don’t know that there was one inspiration. The setting in Sun Valley, Idaho, is pretty hard to beat. We just wanted it to be celebratory, beautiful, comfortable, and fun.

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What is your best piece of advice for other brides?

Organize as much as you can and get things planned; you don’t want to spend the days before your wedding frantically pulling things together. It helps to work with vendors you like and trust. And then a few days before the actual event, stop working on it. If things are not done then, someone else can help, or it wasn’t that important to begin with. The most important part of your wedding is that you get married; no one will know the other things you had in mind that didn’t get finished. The weekend is going to fly by, so do your best to take it all in!

Emily’s advice is absolutely SPOT ON! I myself was up until 2am the night before my wedding finishing up DIY details, and I definitely don’t recommend it!

So what do you all think of this colorful modern wedding? Are any of you going with a color palette that incorporates several colors like this one?

 

Vendors who made it all happen…

Photographer: Dev Khalsa Photography / Reception Venue: Trail Creek Cabin / Ceremony Venue: Sun Valley Resort / Flowers & Decor: Botanica
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A Light Blue, Orange, & Red Southern Farm Wedding

Happy Monday everyone! I am SO excited to be starting our week off with this beautiful southern farm wedding photographed by Kelli Kano. The images are purely breathtaking, the light blue, orange, and red color palette is refreshingly gorgeous, and the bride and groom are SO in love. Everything about this wedding is an absolute joy to see, and I *know* it’s going to put a smile on your face!

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Insight from the bride, Kate:

What (or who) helped you most in your planning process and/or on your wedding day?

Without a doubt, it was our wedding planner, Gilda McDaniel. She was so open to all of my ideas, no matter how outlandish or silly they seemed – her response was always, “We can make that work” and she would add it in to her timeline of our wedding day. She was always there to keep me on track, and assured me that I would not have to worry about a thing on our wedding day; she would be there to make sure I was where I needed to be when I needed to be. It was such a relief, and made my stress practically nonexistent! At the end of the wedding, I started referring to her as my fairy godmother because everything we wished for she made happen! I would suggest to brides who do not want to use a wedding planner to have someone in charge of the timeline of events – - it would have been so easy to miss cues for me, I was having such a great time that day!

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What was the most important thing to you when deciding who to work with for your wedding?

I really wanted to work with people who “got me”. Luckily, our wedding venue, Fearrington Village, has an on-site restaurant/event staff, so we went with them. I came into each meeting with photos (how did we plan weddings before Pinterest?!) to convey how we wanted our wedding to feel. I have to admit, I was a very relaxed and low-key bride; I was totally open to suggestions from the vendors. It was extremely helpful to look through photo albums of florals/cakes/decor that the vendor has done before – that way you know what they do exceedingly well, and also what you don’t love about their work. 

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What was your inspiration for your wedding details and/or design?

My inspiration was actually our venue. Fearrington is an old working dairy farm that is now a little village with an inn, a couple restaurants, specialty shops, and of course their famous belted cows that live in the pastures that surround the village. I really wanted everything about the day to enhance the beautiful landscape that was already there. I went with a very natural details – the floral arrangements looked like they could have been picked right out of the garden and bunched together. Something that was really important to me and Hunter was that our guests felt comfortable, and we tried to echo that same relaxed comfortability in our details. 

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What was your favorite thing about your wedding?

Oh my gosh. So many things! If I had to say, I would probably say the reception. We had it in the barn where we feasted on the yummiest southern cuisine and had an awesome band that had our guests on the dance floor late into the evening. I think what was so great about it is you have people from all parts of your life in the same place at the same time. I also have to say that our first look was really special. Our incredible photographer, Kellie Kano, warmed us up to the idea and I am so, so glad she did. Quite honestly, it was one of the few times that day I actually got to be alone with Hunter, since we were being such social butterflies at the reception!

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A Light Blue, Orange, & Red Southern Farm Wedding

What is your best piece of advice for other brides?

Something WILL go wrong on your wedding day, but I promise you that you will be the only person who notices it. All of your guests are there to celebrate your happy day, and will not notice if one little hair is out of place :) Another piece of advice is enjoy  yourself. Please don’t feel like you have to manage every little thing – this is your wedding day and you deserve to have the time of your life! I know I did!

Kate’s advice that something will go wrong on your wedding day- it’s SO true. Even if you have a wedding planner handling everything… not everything is going to go as you planned, it really helps if you just know that ahead of time.

Alright loves, I want to hear what you think about this lovely Southern wedding! Has it taken your breath away like it did mine?

 

Vendors who made it all happen…

Photographer: Kellie Kano / Reception Venue: Fearrington Villiage / Flowers & Decor: Fearrington Flowers / Cake Baker: Fearrington Cakes / Band: The Herringbones / Makeup Artist: OnLoKtionMakeup Artistry / Bride’s Dress: Monique Lhullier
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